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What is Family Harm?

What is family harm?

Family harm is when someone uses coercion, power, fear, or intimidation to control someone they are or have been in a close, intimate, or household relationship with. The types of relationships include couples, partners living apart, parent and child, siblings, or flatmates.

 

  • It can be physical, sexual, psychological, or economic.
  • It usually, but not always, happens in the home (not in a public place), therefore it is hidden.
  • The coercion, control, and other abuse tactics are often subtle and
  • difficult for victims to explain to others.
  • These tactics adversely impact every aspect of victims’ (and their children’s) lives, including their health, their dignity, and their opportunities to build safe, viable, and fulfilling lives.
  • The majority of perpetrators are men, and the majority of victims are women and gender minorities.
  • Disabled women, rainbow/takatāpui (especially people who are bisexual and transgender) wāhine Māori, and young women are the most likely to be subjected to family violence.

 

 

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